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Reminiscing back when I was a teenager, my mother used to give me some advises about boys, romance, and relationships. Well, she is still doing it until now actually. However, the frequency now has been reduced due to our own business, especially since my mother and I live separately. I guess every little girl has been through the same with their mother. There are times when our beloved mother feels extremely worried seeing her little girl growing up into a full-of-hormones teenager. As for me personally, I love the way my mother was dealing with the teenager-version of me back then. And I cannot thank her enough for that. Instead of guiding me with dos and don’ts, she was always there whenever I need her. She let me experience it for myself without telling me what to do and what not. And in the end of the day, we would review that experience together without judging me or putting the blame on me if I made mistakes. Therefore, the teenager-version of me had learnt so much back then. And one of the lessons is that love is like a fire; and being involved in it is like playing with fire; you might get burnt.

“My mom told me every day that I should always be careful of guys; that love is like playing with fire, because I’ll get hurt. My mom might be right, because whenever I see you, my heart is getting hot; because rather than fear, my attraction to you is much bigger.” –BLACKPINK, Playing With Fire (불장난)

This song I would like to talk about this time is a Korean song performed by th rookie girl-group, BLACKPINK, titled “Playing With Fire (불장난)”. It was released on November 1st 2016 as lead song from their second single album, “Square Two”, which was released on the same day. “Playing With Fire (불장난)” is an electronic dance music track written by Teddy Park with arrangement by R. Tee. The music video, directed by Han Sa Min, was premiered on Mnet on October 31st 2016. The group also released the dance practice video for this song on their official YouTube channel on November 4th 2016. It was choreographed by Kyle Hanagami.


"Square Two" single album cover | source: en.wikipedia.org

When I was a young girl back then, many people told me so many things about love. They used to tell me that love is like this, love is like that, and so on and on. I remember when the first time my mother knew that I had a boyfriend. Strangely, uniquely, and thankfully, she didn’t mad at me back then. Unlike any other parents, my mother asked me out to have a meal together and talked it over meal. Instead of prohibiting me for having a boyfriend, she told me to be careful. She told me what might happen if I took this way or that way, and so on and on. Later on, I understand that she understood a teenage girl like me won’t listen to her if she forbids me from doing something. Indeed, a teenage girl won’t listen. And I learn by experiencing it for myself. Indeed, love is like a fire. “My mom told me every day that I should always be careful of guys; that love is like playing with fire, because I’ll get hurt. My mom might be right, because whenever I see you, my heart is getting hot; because rather than fear, my attraction to you is much bigger.”
To be exact, it is young love that is like a fire. Young love; in terms that it is the love we experienced when we were young, or, it is the love the love that we experience in every early stage of a relationship. I was young once; that’s when I experience the first kind of young love. And it was only last year the last time when I felt the second kind of young love. Hence I still can feel it in the tip of my heart. Young love is a burning fire. When we’re not careful, it might burn us. Young love is a flaming fire. However, instead of being afraid, it makes us excited. And that’s the essence of a young love. It allows us to experience the thrill. “Oh no, I’ve already come too far. Suddenly, none of this feels like a joke anymore. Love is like red fire; let the wind blow, so that the fire will grow. Is this medicine or poison? Not even my mom knows. There’s a robber in my heart but why don’t the police know? Pour out your oil in my burning heart. Kiss him, will I diss him? I don’t know, but I miss him. This is past addiction. This love is crack. The color of my heart is black.”
Being in a young love is like playing with fire. You will think that take it way too far when you actually get nowhere. You will think that it isn’t a joke when you actually play a very tricky game. You will think that it is so complicated that you feel so confused when you actually just enjoy the emotional ride. You will think that you’re being addicted when you actually get burnt by the excitement. And without realizing, your heart has been scorched black. “I can’t stop this trembling, on and on and on. I want to throw my all into your world. I want to throw my all into your fiery path. Look at me now, you are burning me up like this, I can’t turn it off; our love that’s like playing with fire.” Young love will open your way to reality. It’s so natural if you want to give it all, since it is your first time. If you can’t turn it off, then don’t. If you can’t stop it, then don’t. Control is overrated; because you will stop by yourself when you know you cannot take it. “I can’t control it; this path of fire is spreading too quickly. Don’t stop me, so that this love can burn up this night.”


BLACKPINK on "Playing With Fire" music video | source: soompi.com

You will be able to learn about love by letting be. As an experienced one, I have only one message for all teenage girls out there who happen to have their first love or first relationship now: do not have regrets. By all means, do not do anything reckless that you might regret it in the future; or in other way, if you’ve already done every possible reckless thing, then do not regret it; make it as a lesson instead. Yes, love is like a fire, it might burn you. However, that way you would learn about love.  “My love is on fire, now burn baby burn; playing with fire. My love is on fire, so don’t play with me boy; playing with fire.” Yes, playing the game of love is like playing with fire, you might get burnt. However, that way you would be able to understand about love and relationship. Do not be afraid to play with fire. It’s so natural to make mistakes. Some people may say that it is alright to make as many mistakes as possible rather than having regrets for not trying at all. Well, for me personally, we can learn by mistakes, not only ours but also other people’s mistakes. So, listen to as many stories as you can. And in the end of the day, I prefer to fail many times rather than not trying at all. I prefer to get burnt into ashes and learn the lesson so that I can be born again into a better me rather than not experiencing anything at all. That’s why people say that the smooth sea doesn’t make good sailors. Life is too short and precious to not learning anything.

“Oh no, I’ve already come too far. Suddenly, none of this feels like a joke anymore. Love is like red fire; let the wind blow, so that the fire will grow. Is this medicine or poison? Not even my mom knows. There’s a robber in my heart but why don’t the police know?” –BLACKPINK, Playing With Fire (불장난)




우리 엄만 매일 내게 말했어 언제나 남자 조심하라고
(Uri eomman maeil naege malhaesseo eonjena namja josimharago)
((My mom told me every day that I should always be careful of guys))
사랑은 마치 불장난 같아서 다치니까 eh
(Sarangeun machi buljangnan gataseo dachinikka eh)
((That love is like playing with fire, because I’ll get hurt))
엄마 말이 꼭 맞을지도 몰라 널 보면 내 맘이 뜨겁게 달아올라
(Eomma mari kkok majeuljido molla neol bomyeon nae mami tteugeopge daraolla)
((My mom might be right, because whenever I see you, my heart is getting hot))
두려움보단 널 향한 끌림이 더 크니까 eh
(Duryeoumbodan neol hyanghan kkeullimi deo keunikka eh)
((Because rather than fear, my attraction to you is much bigger))

멈출 수 없는 이 떨림은 on and on and on
(Meomchul su eopsneun i tteollimeun, on and on and on)
((I can’t stop this trembling, on and on and on))
내 전부를 너란 세상에 다 던지고 싶어
(Nae jeonbureul neoran sesange da deonjigo sipeo)
((I want to throw my all into your world))
Look at me, look at me now 이렇게 넌 날 애태우고 있잖아 끌 수 없어
(Look at me, look at me now, ireohge neon nal aetaeugo issjanha kkeul su eopseo)
((Look at me, look at me now, you are burning me up like this, I can’t turn it off))
우리 사랑은 불장난
(Uri sarangeun buljangnan)
((Our love that’s like playing with fire))

My love is on fire, now burn baby burn 불장난
(My love is on fire, now burn baby burn, buljangnan)
((My love is on fire, now burn baby burn, playing with fire))
My love is on fire, so don’t play with me boy 불장난
(My love is on fire, so don’t play with me boy, buljangnan)
((My love is on fire, so don’t play with me boy, playing with fire))

Oh no 난 이미 멀리 와버렸는걸 어느새 이 모든 게 장난이 아닌 걸
(Oh no nan imi meolli wabeoryeossneungeol eoneusae i modeun ge jangnani anin geol)
((Oh no, I’ve already come too far, suddenly, none of this feels like a joke anymore))
사랑이란 빨간 불씨 불어라 바람 더 커져가는 불길
(Sarangiran ppalgan bulssi bureora baram deo keojyeoganeun bulgil)
((Love is like red fire, let the wind blow, so that the fire will grow))
이게 약인지 독인지 우리 엄마도 몰라 내 맘 도둑인데 왜 경찰도 몰라
(Ige yaginji doginji uri eommado molla nae mam doduginde wae gyeongchaldo molla)
((Is this medicine or poison? Not even my mom knows; there’s a robber in my heart but why don’t the police know?))
불 붙은 내 심장에 더 부어라 너란 기름 kiss him, will I diss him? I don’t know, but I miss him
(Bul buteun nae simjange deo bueora neoran gireum, kiss him, will I diss him? I don’t know, but I miss him)
((Pour out your oil in my burning heart, kiss him, will I diss him? I don’t know, but I miss him))
중독을 넘어선 이 사랑은 crack 내 심장의 색깔은 black
(Jungdogeul neomeoseon i sarangeun crack nae simjangui saekkkareun black)
((This is past addiction, this love is crack, the color of my heart is black))

멈출 수 없는 이 떨림은 on and on and on
(Meomchul su eopsneun i tteollimeun, on and on and on)
((I can’t stop this trembling, on and on and on))
내 전부를 너란 불길 속으로 던지고 싶어
(Nae jeonbureul neoran bulgil sogeuro deonjigo sipeo)
((I want to throw my all into your fiery path))
Look at me, look at me now 이렇게 넌 날 애태우고 있잖아 끌 수 없어
(Look at me, look at me now, ireohge neon nal aetaeugo issjanha kkeul su eopseo)
((Look at me, look at me now, you are burning me up like this, I can’t turn it off))
우리 사랑은 불장난
(Uri sarangeun buljangnan)
((Our love that’s like playing with fire))

My love is on fire, now burn baby burn 불장난
(My love is on fire, now burn baby burn, buljangnan)
((My love is on fire, now burn baby burn, playing with fire))
My love is on fire, so don’t play with me boy 불장난
(My love is on fire, so don’t play with me boy, buljangnan)
((My love is on fire, so don’t play with me boy, playing with fire))

걷잡을 수가 없는 걸 너무나 빨리 퍼져 가는 이 불길
(Geotjabeul suga eopsneun geol neomuna ppalli peojyeo ganeun i bulgil)
((I can’t control it, this path of fire is spreading too quickly))
이런 날 멈추지 마 이 사랑이 오늘 밤을 태워버리게 whooo~
(Ireon nal meomchuji ma i sarangi oneul bameul taewobeorige whooo~)
((Don’t stop me, so that this love can burn up this night))
Wrote by Mashita Fandia


Everyone must have been felt lonely. Everyone must have been felt lonely among the crowds. But have you ever felt lonely while your significant other is beside you? Have you ever wondered where does that loneliness come from? Have you ever wondered why do you even feel that way? Have you ever wondered whether it is right or wrong to feel that way? If you ever felt that, well, you’re not alone. At some point, people feel lonely, despite their current relationship status or situation. It is not about whether it is the right feeling or not. It is not about whether something is going wrong in the relationship or not. It is not about whether there is something wrong with yourself or not. It is about being human, and it is a nature of being human to feel lonely sometimes. Everyone has this kind of unexplainable sadness inside them. It is not coming from the outside but it is something we have to deal from the inside. Sometimes we need some time on our own. Everybody needs some time on their own. It doesn’t always mean that we are weird. It doesn’t always mean that we do something wrong. It’s neither the fault of our partner nor something goes wrong with the relationship. It’s about ourselves, which means that we need to spend some time to say hello toward our soul and mind and get to know how it is doing all this time.

“Baby I’m sorry, even when I’m with you I’m lonely. I must be lacking when it comes to love. Please forgive this horrible person I am. I’m sorry, this is your and my story. I must not be worthy of this thing called love. Even though I’m by your side, baby I’m so lonely.” –2NE1, Lonely

In a respond to the heartbreaking news spread two days ago, today I would like to write about one of the songs from one of the most influential girl-groups that Kpop industry has ever had: 2NE1. Yup, the sad news was that the group was officially disbanded two days ago. This song is called “Lonely”. It was released on May 11th 2011 as the second single taken from their second Korean self-titled extended play. The EP itself was released on July 28th 2011. “Lonely” is a mid-tempo acoustic ballad track written by Teddy Park. An official music video, directed by Han Sa Min, was released on the same day of the single. So here it is for you; “Lonely”, in order to commemorate the official disbandment of 2NE1. I dedicate this post to say goodbye to this group.


"Lonely" single cover | source: en.wikipedia.org

Loneliness is indeed an easy thing to say but a hard thing to explain. We can easily say that we’re lonely, but most of the times we find it hard to tell why we feel that way. Even among the crowds, sometimes some people find it lonelier than when they’re alone. Lonely is totally different from being alone. Even when we’re with our significant other, there are times when we feel lonely. “Words that I’m saying right now, I don’t know if it will hurt you, it will probably make you hate me forever. You say that I’m not the same as I used to be, that’s not completely untrue. This changed-version of me is a stranger to myself as well.” Even so, most of the time we cannot understand the reason why we feel lonely. It’s a mystery even the most genius person in the world finds it problematic. “You didn’t do anything wrong, I’m the strange one. It seems that I’ve already been preparing since long ago for our breakup. I really wanted to treat you well, out of all the times. But why is it when I’m confronted by love I’m shrinking away and feeling lonely endlessly?”
Loneliness that comes from the inside will change us in some way. For some people who used to be cheerful they would seem quiet in a sudden. For some people who used to be passionate they would seem so cold in a sudden. Sooner or later, our significant other will realize that changing. Because when we become a stranger to ourselves, then it will be even so to our partner. And they will wonder why we change. When we say the truth that we feel lonely, it would hurt our partner’s feeling in some way. But there is no other way than telling the truth. That’s what a healthy relationship takes; to tell the truth no matter how hurtful that will be. Sometimes it’s not our partner who is at fault. Most of the time it is ourselves. Nobody wants to treat their partner badly. However, everyone needs some time to think it for themselves; because not everyone is strong in front of love. “You are so kind, but, that’s the way you are, but, oh I don't know why I am like this. We were so in love, and you’re here now, but oh, I don’t know, now I want to find myself.”
Some people are just weak in front of love. Some people lose their confident when it comes to love. Perhaps, that’s where the loneliness coming from; the fear that they don’t deserve that kind of love, the insecurity that they cannot be and give the best for their partner. They’re being alienated inside their own fears and insecurities. “Baby I’m sorry, even when I’m with you I’m lonely. I must be lacking when it comes to love. Please forgive this horrible person I am. I’m sorry, this is your and my story. I must not be worthy of this thing called love. Even though I’m by your side, baby I’m so lonely.” It doesn’t mean that we don’t love our partner enough. Instead, it’s the sign that we actually love them deeper than we understand. It doesn’t mean that we don’t know how to give love. Instead, it’s the sign that we don’t understand how to receive love. Therefore we feel alienated by our own loneliness. “‘Cause I’m just another girl, this night is lonely, I can’t take it anymore, good bye. ‘Cause I’m just another girl, I’m so lonely, even though I’m by your side right now, baby I’m so lonely.”


"2NE1" mini album cover | source: en.wikipedia.org

When people feel alienated, they tend to choose the easiest way. And the easiest way is running away. However, most of the times, the easiest way is not always the right thing to do. When we feel lonely, we tend to shut ourselves in the darkness and despair. I’ve been there too, believe me, and yes, there is no guarantee that I would not feel that way and do that again sometimes in the future. It’s actually alright to shut ourselves apart from the world and take some distance from our surroundings. However, make sure that you don’t take too long of the time. There are some people out there who really care for us, and one of them is our significant other. Make sure you don’t leave them hanging and wondering what is happening to you. Because it is not impossible for your partner to feel the same when you leave them hanging by your own loneliness. It is highly advised to take some time for your own, but don’t take too long. It is fine to spend some time alone, but don’t take too long. It is alright to be alone for a while, but don’t take too long. For when you think that love is the cause of your loneliness, it is actually the cure instead.

“You didn’t do anything wrong, I’m the strange one. It seems that I’ve already been preparing since long ago for our breakup. I really wanted to treat you well, out of all the times. But why is it when I’m confronted by love I’m shrinking away and feeling lonely endlessly? You are so kind, but, that’s the way you are, but, oh I don't know why I am like this. We were so in love, and you’re here now, but oh, I don’t know, now I want to find myself.” –2NE1, Lonely




지금 내가 하는 얘기 널 아프게 할지 몰라 아마 날 죽도록 미워하게 될 꺼야
(Jigeum naega haneun yaegi neol apeuge halji molla ama nal jukdorok miwohage doelkkeoya)
((Words that I’m saying right now, I don’t know if it will hurt you, it will probably make you hate me forever))
내가 예전 같지 않다던 네 말 모두 틀린 말은 아니야 나도 변해버린 내가 낯 설기만해
(Naega yejeon gatji anhdadeon ne mal modu teullin mareun aniya nado byeonhaebeorin naega nat seolgimanhae)
((You say that I’m not the same as I used to be, that’s not completely untrue, this changed-version of me is a stranger to myself as well))
너무 착한 넌데 넌 그대로인데 oh, I don’t know, I don’t know, 내가 왜 이러는지
(Neomu chakhan neonde neon geudaeroinde oh, I don’t know I, don’t know, naega wae ireoneunji)
((You are so kind, but, that’s the way you are, but, oh I don’t know, I don't know why I am like this))
그토록 사랑했는데 넌 여기 있는데 oh I don’t know 이제 날 찾고 싶어
(Geutorok saranghaessneunde neon yeogi issneunde oh, I don’t know, ije nal chatgo sipeo)
((We were so in love, and you’re here now, but oh, I don’t know, now I want to find myself))

Baby I’m sorry, 너와 있어도 난 lonely 사랑하긴 내가 부족한가 봐이런 못난 날 용서해
(Baby I’m sorry, neowa isseodo nan lonely saranghagin naega bujoghangabwa ireon motnan nal yongseohae)
((Baby I’m sorry, even when I’m with you I’m lonely, I must be lacking when it comes to love, please forgive this horrible person I am))
I’m sorry, 이게 너와 나의 story 사랑이란 내겐 과분한가 봐 네 곁에 있어도
(I’m sorry, ige neowa naui story sarangiran naegen gwabunhangabwa ne gyeote isseodo)
((I’m sorry, this is your and my story, I must not be worthy of this thing called love, even though I’m by your side))
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely, baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely, baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely

네가 잘못한 게 아냐 내가 이상한 거야 이미 오래 전부터 난 준비 했나 봐 이별을
(Nega jalmoshange anya naega isanghangeoya imi orae jeonbuteo nan junbi haessnabwa ibyeoreul)
((You didn’t do anything wrong, I’m the strange one, it seems that I’ve already been preparing since long ago for our breakup))
정말 잘해주고 싶었는데 하필 사랑 앞에서는 왜 이렇게 한없이 작아지고 외로운지
(Jeongmal jalhaejugo sipeossneunde hapil sarang apeseoneun wae ireohge haneobsi jagajigo oerounji)
((I really wanted to treat you well, out of all the times, but why is it when I’m confronted by love
I’m shrinking away and feeling lonely endlessly?))
너무 착한 넌데 넌 그대로인데 oh, I don’t know, I don’t know 내가 왜 이러는지
(Neomu chakhan neonde neon geudaeroinde oh, I don’t know I, don’t know, naega wae ireoneunji)
((You are so kind, but, that’s the way you are, but, oh I don’t know, I don't know why I am like this))
그토록 사랑했는데 넌 여기 있는데 oh, I don’t know 이제 날 찾고 싶어
(Geutorok saranghaessneunde neon yeogi issneunde oh, I don’t know, ije nal chatgo sipeo)
((We were so in love, and you’re here now, but oh, I don’t know, now I want to find myself))

Baby I’m sorry 너와 있어도 난 lonely 사랑하긴 내가 부족한가 봐이런 못난 날 용서해
(Baby I’m sorry, neowa isseodo nan lonely saranghagin naega bujoghangabwa ireon motnan nal yongseohae)
((Baby I’m sorry, even when I’m with you I’m lonely, I must be lacking when it comes to love, please forgive this horrible person I am))
I’m sorry 이게 너와 나의 story 사랑이란 내겐 과분한가 봐 네 곁에 있어도
(I’m sorry, ige neowa naui story sarangiran naegen gwabunhangabwa ne gyeote isseodo)
((I’m sorry, this is your and my story, I must not be worthy of this thing called love, even though I’m by your side))
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely, baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely, baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely

‘Cause I’m just another girl, 이 밤이 외로워 난 더는 견딜 수 없어 good bye
(‘Cause I’m just another girl, i bami oerowo nan deoneun gyeondil su eobseo good bye)
((‘Cause I’m just another girl, this night is lonely, I can’t take it anymore, good bye))
‘Cause I’m just another girl, 너무나 외로워 지금 네 곁에 있어도 baby I’m so lonely
(‘Cause I’m just another girl, neomuna oerowo jigeum ne gyeote isseodo baby I’m so lonely)
((‘Cause I’m just another girl, I’m so lonely, even though I’m by your side right now, baby I’m so lonely))
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely, baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely, baby I’m so lonely lonely lonely lonely lonely
Wrote by Mashita Fandia


Somehow I still want to talk about sex in this posting. If in the previous post I mainly talked about how it feels when we finally find someone whom we completely and truly and deeply fall in love and makes us realizing the real feeling of being in heaven (or at least the closest to heaven) which we never felt before in our past relationship, then in this post I would like to talk about how it feels to be with someone we’re compatible with, of course, in bed. There are always two sides of making love. First one is the soft and soothing ones, which I have talked in the previous post. Second one is the wild, rough, and pleasurable ones, which I would like to talk now. Both of those sides will take us to paradise, indeed, when both people could enjoy it together; and that’s the essence of making love. It’s beyond just having sex, because it’s more than just two bodies meet together. Amidst the wilderness, it’s two souls that are mating to each other, embracing one another, and finding pleasure together. Just imagine how amazing it would be to find someone who is able to comprehend and counterbalance, more than just complement or fulfill one sided desire. Just so you know, women want to enjoy sex just as much as men.

“Look what you’re doing, look what you’ve done. But in this jungle you can’t run, ‘cause what I got for you, I promise it's a killer. You’ll be banging on my chest, bang bang! Gorilla... you and me baby making love like gorillas.” –Bruno Mars, Gorilla

This one hell of a sexy song is still coming from Bruno Mars. It’s titled “Gorilla” and was released on September 10th 2013 as the fourth single taken from the singer’s second studio album, “Unorthodox Jukebox”. The day before the song’s release as a single, he performed it live at the VMAs with a laser show and an extra verse. This track is a midtempo rock and soft rock song with a power pop hook, written by Mars himself along with Philip Lawrence and Ari Levine. An official music video, starring Freida Pinto, was directed by Mars himself along with Cameron Buddy. It was released on October 15th 2013. The official remix (G-Mix) of the song features American singers Pharrell Williams and R. Kelly, and was released in Canada and US on November 12th 2013. Lyrically, though directly talk about sex, it is simply about the intense moment you lose yourself with the right person; it’s about the thrill of the chase and the catch. It contains an obvious metaphor of making love with the right person as making love like gorillas; as human follow the primary animal-like instinct.


"Gorilla" single cover | source: en.wikipedia.org

The thing about making love is that it is the intense moment we lose ourselves with that person. We’re feeling high, of course, but what really matters is that we can be with somebody who can bring us the feeling of supremacy. What will be really meaningful is that we can be with somebody who can make us feel sexy and wanted and desirable without make us feel insecure about it. “I got a body full of liquor with a cocaine kicker. And I’m feeling like I’m thirty feet tall, so lay it down. You got your legs up in the sky with the devil in your eyes. Let me hear you say you want it all, say it now.” Insecurity is a big issue in sex. There are always fears and concerns regarding to whether we can satisfy our partner, whether our partner is willing to do this or that, whether it is alright to explore this or that. How amazing it would be if we can be with someone who is able to liberate us from all of those worries. Hence we could actually enjoy it. For making love is a form of human’s liberation from all that suppress them. It is supposed to be the moment of freedom.
In terms of sex, some people like it rough. And believe me, at times women do like it rough just as much as men. There are some women who even enjoy it more than men when it is rough and wild. When we like it rough, just imagine how amazing it would be if we can be with someone who is able to encourage us when we go a little rough with them. And how wonderful it would be if we can be with somebody who is as reckless as we are; who doesn’t give a fuck about what’s outside the room. And how satisfying it would be if we can be with someone who shares the same interest as us. “I got a fistful of your hair but you don’t look like you’re scared. You just smile and tell me, ‘Daddy, it’s yours.’ ‘Cause you know how I like it, you’s a dirty little lover. If the neighbors call the cops, call the sheriff, call the SWAT, we don’t stop. We keep rocking while they're knocking on our door. And you’re screaming, ‘Give it to me baby, give it to me motherfucker!’” Just imagine how fantastic it would be if we can be with someone who is a willing participant to indulge our base desires.
When we can finally be with that person who is able to comprehend and counterbalance us, it would change our regular night into one of intense sexual activity. And perhaps, that crazed night would change us into a wild animal, such as gorilla. “Look what you’re doing, look what you’ve done. But in this jungle you can’t run, ‘cause what I got for you, I promise it's a killer. You’ll be banging on my chest, bang bang! Gorilla... you and me baby making love like gorillas.” Having it wild and rough doesn’t make it less intimate than having it soft and in a soothing way. Moreover, when we meet the best partner in a way that we share the same interest and desire, then making love could never be better than that. “I bet you never ever felt so good. I got your body trembling like it should. You’ll never be the same baby once I’m done with you.” And after meeting that kind of person, we would never be the same again, since we would know how it feels to be the closest to heaven; since we would know how amazing it could be with the right person.


Freida Pinto starred in "Gorilla" music video | source: media.indiatimes.in

“Gorilla” reveals the dirty side of making love while “Locked Out Of Heaven” is mostly talking about the all-beautiful side. However, when it’s dirty then it doesn’t mean that it’s ugly. Even the ugliest thing must have the beautiful side of it. In this context, that will happen only when we meet the right partner. And how do we know when we meet that person? The right person would liberate us. They would make us feel the freedom to love and be loved and express it through every way. The right person would comprehend us. They would wash away our fears and insecurities and turn them into comfort and hope. The right person would counterbalance us. They would be more than just a complement, but a balancer. They would be our source of strength instead of being our cause of unconfident. The right person would be compatible with us in every way. With that person, we would feel the way we never felt before. With that person, we would discover things we never knew before. With that person, we would realize what being in love supposed to be. With that person, we would feel like we’ve been locked out of heaven all this time before, because they take you to the paradise. With that person, we would understand that making love could be so amazing, because we’re so compatible with them, and we’re making love like gorillas.




“I bet you never ever felt so good. I got your body trembling like it should. You’ll never be the same baby once I’m done with you.” –Bruno Mars, Gorilla

Ooh I got a body full of liquor with a cocaine kicker
And I’m feeling like I’m thirty feet tall, so lay it down, lay it down
You got your legs up in the sky with the devil in your eyes
Let me hear you say you want it all, say it now, say it now

Look what you’re doing, look what you’ve done
But in this jungle you can’t run, ‘cause what I got for you
I promise it's a killer, you’ll be banging on my chest
Bang bang, gorilla

Ooh, yeah, you and me baby making love like gorillas
Ooh, yeah, you and me baby making love like gorillas

Yeah, I got a fistful of your hair but you don’t look like you’re scared
You just smile and tell me, ‘Daddy, it’s yours.’
‘Cause you know how I like it, you’s a dirty little lover
If the neighbors call the cops, call the sheriff, call the SWAT, we don’t stop
We keep rocking while they're knocking on our door
[Clean version:] And you’re screaming, ‘Give it to me baby, give it like you wanna!’
[Explicit version:] And you’re screaming, ‘Give it to me baby, give it to me motherfucker!’

Oh, look what you’re doing, look what you’ve done
But in this jungle you can’t run, ‘cause what I got for you
I promise it's a killer, you’ll be banging on my chest
Bang bang, gorilla

Ooh, yeah, you and me baby making love like gorillas
Ooh, yeah, you and me baby making love like gorillas

I bet you never ever felt so good, so good
I got your body trembling like it should, it should
You’ll never be the same baby once I’m done with you
You, you, you

Oh, you with me baby making love like gorillas
Ooh, yeah, you and me baby we’ll be fucking like gorillas
Ooh, yeah, yeah, yeah, baby, baby, oh yeah, yeah
You and me baby making love like gorillas
Wrote by Mashita Fandia
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